March 18, 2013

Consular Leadership Day 2013—Welcome back to Manila





I made the draining flight back to Manila yesterday and what is better than a service project welcome party? One of the goals of being a Consular Officer with the Foreign Service is to reach out every year and have a leadership day. This year the team planned a service day to give back to the community—Corporate Social Responsibility. I was happy to get in time to join in!

We spent the morning on a large soccer complex playing games with the Special Olympians. Since I was not here for the planning portion of the day, I roamed around and enjoyed watching colleagues interact with the athletes. They played soccer, bocce, and other team games for several hours. I had fun in hearing the joy as their bocce ball got close and they gave everyone around them high fives!

One of my favorite things about the morning was listening to one of the Special Olympians give her welcome remarks. She was full of enthusiasm and spunk. She concluded her speech by saying, “My name is Brina and I have down-syndrome. Is it a challenge sometimes? Yes. Is it a problem? No, we all have struggles we need to overcome…oh and just so you know my family got their visas!”  Haha! What an inspiration.




















































In the afternoon we split off into four groups and did service. I ended up with the group that painted for an NGO—Reach Youth—that feeds street children and does an after school supplemental education program.

We had a blast painting…even if it was HOT!!

It felt good to do some service, as it always does. It was also fun to see all the friends we have made here in Manila. So many people that we love, it is hard to think my time here is coming to a close. 




















 

March 16, 2013

20 weeks--Halfway there!





So this week of the pregnancy is an exciting, and scary week to hit. The baby is officially halfway through the gestation period of a normal pregnancy! And the best part is…there has been no problems so far!

The doctors still keep a really close watch over Lady Hiva. We have an ultrasound or a doctor’s appointment at least every 8 or 9 days. The progress has been really positive. SO that is exciting! Little baby, Tau’aho (yes we finally finished negotiations on the name and found one that we like), has now made it farther than all his sisters. In 8 weeks he will have made it as far as his brother.

The scary part about this week is that usually about 20 weeks is when Lady Hiva starts to have pre-term labor. We are hoping the cerclage will keep that from happening. So far everything is good. As the pregnancy progresses, we celebrate each milestone. Of course, each week we complete is a happy moment. Then we were happy to pass 12 weeks, the first tri-mester is over and complications diminish a bit. At 15 weeks all of the vital organ are formed, another milestone. 20 weeks is halfway. Our next will be 24—the “viability date.” 26 is when we will start to feel comfortable because quality of life is stronger. 28 is how long Vaitafe made it and he was alright….and it goes on from there.

The last few weeks we continue to be blessed. Some members of our ward gave us several of their “over-stock” items that were barely used. So we now have the bassinet, stroller, baby carrier, car seat, and swing. As I have said many times, there are some good people in the world.

Thanks for taking the journey with us. It has been uneventful so far, let’s hope it does not get too rocky in the upcoming months.