December 21, 2011

Will Santa Come to a Cardboard Fireplace?


I was still tired from the trip to Baguio, but we had another party to get ready for—the Youth Christmas party for our congregation. The Young Women Presidency divided up the responsibilities. Lady Hiva was in charge of decorations and desserts so we set to work creating! She made the desserts, I started on the decorations.




Lady Hiva had it all planned out that she wanted a “Winter Scene” including a fireplace, it was my job to take that idea and make it happen. The fireplace was first. With lots of packing tape and a few boxes, I was able to put something together. It was fun to make. We took one of our garlands from home to decorated it and Lady Hiva downloaded a “crackling fire” noise the increase the authenticity—haha! I think it is the only fireplace around that has the air conditioner on in the same room! I wonder if Santa will come visit the house if we have a cardboard fireplace?







We made a snowy winter scene and large snowflakes out of paper cutouts from the Cricut (one of the most used pieces of equipment in our house) and a tree out of tinsel. It all looked really good when we were done. (Yes, I may be a bit bias)

Hiva made Oreo truffles, thanks to the Relief Society of the BYU-Hawaii 14th ward cooking classes and a large marbled cake. Both were really popular with the party guests!



The best part of the experience was spending time with the youth. They are so excited to enjoy every little thing that we do. Lady Hiva had planned several games for them that included a scavenger hunt with clues from the St. Luke Chapter 2 version of the Christmas Story and a gift exchange. It was fun to watch them run from one place to another trying to answer questions out of the Bible.






The very last thing we did was the game for exchanging gifts where the group sits in a circle and they listen to a story about the “Wright” family and whenever they hear the word “Right” they hand the box right; or “Left”, they hand the box left. In English it is really fun because there is so many uses for “left”: ‘Turn left’ ‘I left my purse’ etc. And with “Right” you have ‘Wright,’ ‘write,’ ‘right’ as in turn, and ‘right’ as in correct. Here were all of these youth laughing hysterically because English is not their first language and it was extra chaotic! At one point someone would have no gifts and another person would have three…


This a the hardest clue...they are all just hoping someone else will come up with the answer











He REALLY wanted that gift, but I guess the "Wright" story was not Right for him!



Was that right or left? Kaliwa or Kanan






It was a fun evening, always a nice experience to spend time among friends.

December 18, 2011

Of Ghosts, Bread, and Laughter--Back to Baguio!

This weekend I returned to Baguio for work. I love that city! Once again, it was nice to be in the cool weather and smell the pine trees.

We took a small plane up to Baguio; the runway is really short so only small planes can land there. It was funny that as we were getting ready to take off one of the guys sitting near me decided to announce that this is same type of plane of the big wreck in Manila last week that killed 10 people. Then went into detail how easy it is to wreck when one of the two engines die. Thanks, thanks a WHOLE bunch for the comforting speech before we take off! HA

 The flight was ridiculously short compared to the long 5 hour drive by land. As we neared Baguio city the view was breath taking. The evergreen mountains folded into each other like a large blanket, turquoise rivers wound through the valleys and colorful square roofs accented the ridges. Large white clouds gathered at the mountain peaks like dancing giants. One of those experiences that even photos cannot capture in full beauty.

It was a short trip, but extremely fun. I enjoyed working with so many colleagues that each took their assigned duty and performed to the best of their ability; the grand sum being a smooth experience. I found myself laughing often as we told and heard stories from each other.

I stayed at the same old mansion where Lady Hiva and I stayed in October. All the locals passed ghost stories around the whole time we were there. In October, we did not have any experiences to I was not expecting much, but enjoyed the stories anyway. However, at 3am I woke up to people talking loudly outside my window. (I was on the second floor) I just thought it was some of the workers getting ready for the Holiday event the next day and I went to sleep thinking it was weird they were talking so loud that early in the morning. As we were gathered the next day, one of the other women said she too woke up at three and heard them talking. She too wondered why they were talking so loudly, but could not see them when she looked out her window. But when we asked all of the staff about it, they said that nobody was out after midnight. YIKES! So maybe I should have listened more closely to what was being said. One of the other women’s glass of water bedside her bed exploded around the same time. (There are photos of that) I guess the ghost in her room were not as friendly.

I went to Good Shepherd again, with a list from Lady Hiva, to get some more ube jam and peanut brittle. Then I discovered another Baguio delicacy, Baguio Country Club bread—both raisin and cheese bread! It was amazing.  When I got home, Hiva and I finished the entire loaf in less than an hour! Now we will be asking people to get us some of that too when they go. Baguio needs to be closer to Manila, I just decided haha!

Of course there are those moments when you have to laugh, like when the caravan of cars left me. Luckily the driver of my car came back a few minutes later to get me. Yes, I was his only passenger, but I guess that he did not know that I did not get into the car???? Hmm…really?! I laughed about it, because what else are you going to do? I tried to make a joke about it, but then the driver got us lost—much to the dismay of the security team that had to come find us—the poor guy was so afraid that I would be mad at him. I had to make sure to tell him it was alright, things happen.

Meeting the wonderful people of Baguio was also fun. They enjoyed the fact that I spoke Tagalog. At one point I was telling a story and I looked up and all three tables around us were listening to it too! I made a joke that I was like a movie or something and they all laughed…In fairness, I probably was being really animated and they could not help but watch the loud white guy talking. Someone chimed in and said, “We are just amazed you speak our language.” Other reactions I got throughout the night were similar. One old guy pulled me aside and said, “Son, your Tagalog is great, but now you need to fix your accent.” HAHA…then ten minutes later a different lady said, “Your accent sounds so wonderful!” Hmm…I cannot tell if she was being WAY too kind, or the other guy too hard. I am guessing the guy was more accurate! So I tried hard not to start laughing as she told me that.

It was a fun few days, extremely tiring because we were constantly on the run from one event to the next, but I met some new friends, got to know old friends better, and enjoyed every minute of it! And the best part was coming back home to Lady Hiva!

December 10, 2011

The OUTSIDER’s guide to Manila…or at least how we see it


We have now been here in the Manila for a while and we thought it would be fun to share some hints and tips that we have learned about traveling in the Philippines. Some of these lessons were learned the hard way, so hopefully this post will save you from some of the same experiences.

TRAVEL
·         General
o   Always have toilet paper, wipes, and hand sanitizer with you. Bathrooms are not usually clean. Sometimes they are so if you see a clean bathroom, use it! You never know when you will see the next one. Having soap, toilet paper and paper towels are a luxury not the norm.
o   There are plenty of things to see within a day trip from Manila. It is always nice to get out of the city and see the beautiful countryside of the Philippines. (See our link: Day Trips)
o   The best place to get your car cleaned is in the Mall parking lot while you shop. Almost all major malls have a group that will do that for you.
o   If you are flying out of Manila. Make sure you know which terminal you are going to. They are in different parts of the airport and you CANNOT walk between them. Be specific with the driver dropping you off because otherwise you will end up at the wrong place and have to take another taxi (Very FRUSTRATING experience)

·         Getting around Manila:
o   There are several ways to get around Manila itself. Jeepneys, tricycles, buses, the train, or taxis. Many of these are overcrowded and generally not recommended for foreigners that are not familiar with the area and people. If you do take them, be alert; know where your valuables are.
o   When crossing the street, just hold your hand up and start walking. There are no crosswalks and people will normally stop for you. Very scary experience at first, but it works
o   Taking a taxi is the easiest, especially if you cannot speak the language. You can see the price. Make sure they start the meter when you get in. If they don’t, then get out. There are plenty more taxi’s behind you. Often they will try things like stopping at a petrol station to fuel up on your way. The first time this happened we were confused. Then we realized the time runs while there. You can either get out then, or just figure the ten pesos and time is not worth the hassle of finding another taxi.
o   It helps to have a general idea where you are going maps are a good thing to have handy, even if it is a just a printed copy of a MapQuest. That way you can object if they start taking the “short cut” that usually costs more in the end. Keep in mind that times and street names are relative so stop and ask if you think you are lost.
o   Have your address written down in English and Tagalog. Include major landmarks the driver will know. The first time we went to the mall in a taxi was great, then when we wanted to return home, I had no idea how to get there! YIKES! They don’t do addresses like we do in the States, they use landmarks. For example: “We live between the __________ and ______. Next to ______________”
o   Knowing some simple Tagalog phrases can help:
      •   Pupunta ako sa _____________ =“I am going to __________________”
      •   Salamat po_________________= “Thank you____________________”
·         Driving yourself
o   Several foreign families have their own driver. It is easier and hassle free.
o   We chose not to have a driver and generally have no problems. That being said, there is an art to driving here, especially in Manila—there are people everywhere! Most days it is complete chaos!
o   Don’t worry about figuring out the rules—there are none. Just worry about the cars around you and work with them, it is much like a jig saw puzzle. Go with the flow.
o   ALWAYS expect the car to cut in front of you. Busses and motorcycles are the worst. They do not look, slow down, or use signals before they come over so it is best to just expect it. They will also drive against traffic and turn right from the fourth lane over.
o   Use your horn. It can be a handy tool to let people know you are there, you want to turn, that you are coming, etc.
o   Be alert. Either on foot or vehicle, they will pull out into the road and THEN LOOK. Not the other way around. Make sure you always know what is around you in case you have to dodge hitting someone.
o   Policeman will pull you over and want you to bribe them not to give you a ticket. Do not give your license to them because they will not give it back until you do pay them. So be careful there.
o   Street beggars will come knock on your windows and doors for money or to sell something. Make sure your doors are locked and windows up. It is hard to see, completely sad how they exploit children and elderly, but realize most of the money they collect does not go to those they exploit. There are plenty of charities around the country that are doing wholesome help for the poor, your money is better used if donated to them.

FOOD

  • ·         Take bottled water with you or order bottled water when you drink. If it is a higher end restaurant the water is usually ok, but if you are unsure it is better to be safe
  • ·         Street food is usually not a good idea. Unless of course you have an iron stomach.
  • ·         Most Filipino dishes are fried, have mayonnaise, some kind of fish sauce, or lots of sugar. If you do not like any of those things make sure to ask before you order it. We were shocked the first time we had pasta here because there was so much sugar in it. Fresh fruit smoothies and shakes will also have straight sugar water added.
  • ·         When eating a Halo-Halo (a popular desert here) make sure to mix it. The first time we tried it, we did not like it because we ate it layer by layer. To get the full effect you have to mix it all together.
·         Eating out
o   Manila is a diverse city so you can usually find a good restaurant or two. Here are some of our favorites
§  Indian Food: Kashmir on Padre Faura street, Ermita. The outside does not look like much but inside it is a fun ethnically decorated place with delicious dishes!
§  Thai Food: Peoples Palace has somewhat westernized Thai food. Located in Greenbelt Malls, Makati. We love this place! Make sure to try the sticky mango coconut rice.
§  Pizza: Yellow Cab Pizza and Shakeys Pizza seem to have the best “American styled pizza. There are located all over the city
§   Cheesesteak shop: Makati, Authentic Philly cheesesteaks with imported bread and meat.
§  Italian food: Italianis  in most major malls. The pasta does not have sugar in it and tastes most like we would expect.
§  Greek food: There is good restaurant on the second level of Robinsons Mall Ermita. Really great for fresh vegetable salads.
§  Lunch/breakfast: Apt 1B Great burgers, smoothies, salads and sandwiches Salcedo Village, Makati
§  Japanese food: There are a few really great Japanese restaurants in the Ermita area
§  Chelseas: Serendra, Fort Bonafacio. Upscale home-style food. Great burgers, sandwiches and salads. Make sure to try their Cantaloupe coconut smoothy
§  Korean BBQ: ask around, some of the best are ‘hole-in-the-wall places’
§  They also have TGI Fridays, Chilis, Tony Romas, Wendys, McDonalds, KFC and other American brands at all major malls.
SHOPPING
You can find just about anything you need in Manila. (Or a substitute version of it) You just have to be willing to go look. The game becomes convenience over necessity. (Click on the Shopping link to see all of our stories about shopping). 

·         General
o   There are sometimes MORE employees in a store than shoppers. They want to be helpful, especially if you look foreign so they will all come talk to you or wave you over to their stores. It can be exhausting and a bit claustrophobic at times.
o   Don’t pick up, point or ask a price unless you are prepared to either bargain or fight off the vendor who will clamor to sell it to you.
o   Be prepared to be patted down when you enter any mall by the guard.

·                      Malls
o   Mall of Asia
§  It is big and has quite a bit to see. The theaters are clean (although you can read one of our experiences with a  mouse on a previous post)
§  Several stores to choose from
§  An ice skating rink
§  They do fireworks on the bay every Friday and Saturday 7pm unless it rains
§  A few restaurants we like. Most are local favorites
§  Always big crowds
o   Robinsons Mall Ermita
§  Big and clean, more stores that are not high end. Less crowds and we have found it has a better variety of restaurants than Mall of Asia.
o   Makati Malls
§  Greenbelt and Glorietta malls are right next to each other
§  Both malls are high end and mid-level shopping and always clean and beautiful
§  Rustans and Landmark mall are across the street and are both basically a large department stores like Macys or Nordstrom.
§  Makati malls are most similar to what we see in the States
§  Plenty of great restaurants, bars and movie theaters to choose from in this area
§  The drawback is traffic getting to and from
o   Fort Bonifacio
§  Market-Market, High Street, and Serendra, much like in Makati, are all strung together.
§  Stores are mostly catering to the wealthy. Plenty of sit down restaurants. A great place to get away from the chaos of Manila and feel like you are in the States for a few minutes
oRestort World, across the road from the Airport. A big spacious mall/casino. Very clean, not many people. There are several restaurants to choose from. The theater is more expensive but the cleanest of all the other malls. (And the bathrooms have soap, toilet paper AND paper towels)
o  Greenhills
§  Completely chaotic. It is much like an indoor flee market attached to a mall; A great place to buy bags, pearls, handicrafts, clothes, etc. Just be prepared though it is an intense experience. Bargain. They will raise the price because they think you are rich. If they will not lower the price, leave. They will lower then or you will find another booth that will.
§  Again know a few Tagalog phrases are good here
·         Magkano? = how much is this?
·         Sobrang Mahal = too expensive
·         Tingnan lang = just looking 

·         Outdoor shopping (again, see blog links to the side for our experiences at these places)
o   Taft street and Baclaran
§  For a fun walk and to see all the street vendors that sell everything from shoes to clothes to household items, take a walk around Baclaran. Be aware of your valuables (don’t take any more than necessary). Things are cheap, feel free to bargain, they will raise the price, up to 100% over what they charge a local.
o   Cartimar Market
§  Located in the Pasay/Ermita area, Cartimar sells shoes, clothes, animals (of all kinds), and plants. Another place to just go explore
o   There are two farmer’s markets in Makati on the weekends. One on Saturday morning
in Salcedo Village, and one on Sunday morning. They are really similar to markets in the States.
o   Divisoria
§  North of Chinatown in Manila. Divisoria is a collection of malls and outdoor shopping. Completely crazy, but cheap. You can find anything here that you need, from furniture and cloth to flowers, jewelry and food. Truly a great experience, even if you only go once.
§  Take a taxi in and out just to make sure your car is safe
§  Again, be prepared to bargain. They will raise the price. Or buy things that have prices listed
§  BE Aware of your surroundings. Most people are friendly are wonderful, but make sure you are aware of your surroundings.
§  Most people take a local with them; we went by ourselves and were fine. 

·         Grocery Shopping
o   S&R
§  A membership club, much like Costco or Sam’s in the States. You can get American soap, detergent, candy, milk, foods, Melona bars, Breyers ice cream, salsa, ranch,  oreos, real orange juice (that is not LOADED with sugar), and we have found they have the best meat selection. It is expensive but some things are worth it.
o   Hypermarket
§  A big supermarket brand name here. Kind of like a small Wal-mart or Target. This is where we do most of our shopping. They have a large international section and we can find either what we need or a close substitute. Their fruits vegetables are usually good.
o   Rustan’s
§  A higher end grocery store. More expensive, but they have specialty things other stores do not have. Like Mochi ice cream, rice milk, refried beans etc.
o   Santi’s deli
§  A chain of deli’s that sell fresh deli meats. Something that is hard to find anywhere else
o   Robinson’s Supermarket
§  Located in the Mall in Ermita. A less hectic and cleaner version of Hypermarket but not as expensive as Rustan’s. Vegetable and fruit section quite a bit larger here.

December 09, 2011

My 2.365 seconds of fame...

So I really do like Christmas but it seems that I am becoming a bit of a Christmas poster child. From Santa, to being the MC at two Holiday parties, to this video below that was broadcast on social network sites. (See if you can find me in the video) :)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ArqWYNPxsi8

HAHAHA...I can't decide if I was making a funny face at the camera or if they did not like my bald head because they completely cut me out of the first shot! HAHAHA.

I also want to say thank you to all that read our blog, yesterday we passed a HUGE milestone 10,000! viewers! Thank you for being willing to take our journeys with us, we enjoy sharing with you so we don't all feel so far away from each other!

December 07, 2011

...The things you will say, and the clothes you will wear


They asked me to MC the Mission Holiday party with another co-worker, Tiny. And, no, I did not have to wear a Santa suit this time. Actually, to tell you the truth, it may have not been a Santa suit, but there is a whole story about what I wore.

The party was outside and I was scheduled to be there from noon time until it ended around 4pm, so I did not want to be hot and sweating in the Manila weather. I planned on wearing a short sleeved shirt. The problem is, I don’t OWN a short sleeved shirt that is still business attire. All my work shirts are long sleeved. So I told Lady Hiva I needed to go get one. As we went to the mall, she announced to me that I am “such a woman.” Now, it is not usually a good thing when your wife calls you a woman, so naturally I inquired why I qualified for that stereotype. She said, laughing this time, “You are such a woman. You want to look good on stage so you have to go buy a new outfit for the event…” HA! Whatever, the reason, I did not want to be hot on stage and as feminine as it seemed I am glad I bought a shirt because it was HUMID!

The day was fun. Of course there are those moments after the show when you think, “Did I just say/do that in front of the entire Mission?” YIKES! (Lady Hiva says that I already said ‘almost that exact line in another post…’ so I must say quite a bit of dumb things in front of large audiences) Like when I mispronounced one of the star’s last name (Arthur Manuntag) that I was introducing and then butchered it a second time when I tried to get it right…aye ya ya aye! After that I just referred to him as “Art.” “Good job Art. Welcome Art! Give a round of applause for ART!” YIKES! Or when I got tongue tied one some random word and said, what has to be the best line of the whole day, “alalalalalalal” while rolling my tongue to make a joke out of my folly.
Erik Santos





La Diva




Aside from that, it was a really great time. We had performances by celebrities here in the Philippines, Erik Santos that won the first season of  “Star in a Million,” La Diva, a trio of women who harmonized amazingly,  Arthur….Art, and Stephanie Reese. Being on the stage the whole time it was quite entertaining to see the crowd’s faces and the performances continued. Women were screaming and doing this heart symbol over their chests while Erik sang, and there was a line of men ready to take photos with the La Diva girls when they finished singing!



Art


Stephanie Reese



All the entertainers were wonderful with the crowd. They all walked down off the stage to the people during their performances. I was glad that I was not on the front row though. All of the front row people, at one point or another, were chosen to dance on stage or sing solos of a song…there was no escaping, they held the microphones right in their faces!






There was one surprise guest, Apl. De. Ap. from Black Eyed Peas, who came to say hello.  Apl. De. Ap. is a Filipino-American who was born in Pampanga and immigrated to the States.  The crowd went wild when he entered the stage. He walked down the stairs to the crowd and within minutes there were clawing women AND men vying to touch him and/or take a photo! Now that was entertaining. There was one older lady, who is normally quiet and sitting at her desk, grab the girl next to her by the arm and literally ran across the muddy grass in high heels and white pants with the other girl flailing in tow! This is SERIOUS business! As we were standing on stage I looked out at Hiva and nodded to her to take a photo of me with Apl. De. Ap. on stage—thankfully she was willing to take photos so I can share with you, and thankfully she and I can understand each other’s small non-verbal communication in the middle of a whole group of people. After the event she came up really excited and said, “I got some really great photos of you with Apple of My Eye…or whatever his name is!” HAHAHA!








Then there was the dance off competition between departments again. Both groups did exceptionally well, again I was left wondering when they all had time to practice.









It was a really great opportunity. All the hard work of those that prepared the event really paid off. I enjoyed getting to know some colleagues that I had not met before and all of the celebrities were so down-to-earth and that was really refreshing to see. Even when there was an awkward moment of technology glitch and we all waited while they got a new CD to play for the artist. I had, one song earlier, leaned over to a co-worker standing just off the stage with me and said, “Of all the jobs at a big event like this I would NOT want the sound system/music job.” She asked why, and my reason is that if something goes wrong or it does not sound right, it is the sound guy that gets the pressure, the glares in the silence and the blame. So when the glitch happened she turned to me and said, “You jinxed it!” oops! But as it turns out, the artist had given him the wrong CD and had the real CD in her purse! HAHAHA






So even though I may have said some things into the microphone that had people shaking their heads, at least I had a new shirt!