Today was a good day. I say this for several reasons: first
Aleki is one week old today! YAY! Second is that Lady Hiva is still pregnant
with Tau’aho and both seem to be doing well.
Aleki has become the center of our world over the past several
days. You may say, “Of course he is, he is a newborn and they demand plenty of
attention.” And if you did, you would be right. However, having waited SO long
to have a little person in our home, we welcome all of those demands. As I said
before, Aleki is a week old! And he still looks and feels healthy. So we may be
new at this, but we must be doing alright to some extent.
Plenty of people comment about “welcome to having a new born
and (fill in the blank)” some say ‘dirty diapers’ others say ‘no sleep’ etc. We
smile and say, “Yes, thank you.” In the past week, we have been up all hours of
the night. We have taken naps when Aleki was sleeping so that we were on the
same schedule. We have changed countless diapers. Aleki has decided to pee on both
of us at different times while his diaper was off! (The first time that
happened was to Lady Hiva at 0230 in the morning. I woke up to both of them
screaming—she out of shock and trying to get it covered and he because he HATES
to be naked. Haha!)
There is not a moment that Aleki does not have one of us in
his face telling him a story or kissing his tiny little cheeks. The poor guy
didn’t know what he got himself into. Watching him sleep so peacefully brings a
smile of joy to my face--every time. I miss him when I am at work and cannot
wait to hold his little hands as I read a story to him.
Actually, it truly warms my heart (I know that is a trite
phrase, but it is true) to watch Lady Hiva be a mother. I love to hear the love
in her voice as she talked to Aleki and tells him all about her day. To see the
kindness in her eyes and the smile on her face as she holds him is special. She
has waited a long time for this and I am so happy a loving Heavenly Father has
sent Aleki to us.
Aleki is quite the popular guy. We have a steady stream of
people coming to say hello and to hold him. We have a new plate of cookies every
day! Woohoo! So if you like cookies, have a baby…hehe. We even had one family
come over to sing him to sleep. We even had some friends sneak into the building and decorate our door. Everyday we have packages arrive from around
the world with notes of love and encouragement. Their words mean so much to us.
What an awesome support group. We are truly blessed.
That same support group has prayed for 8 months for Lady and
Tau’aho. And it is working! People that known our story or read WHITE LILIES IN AUTUMN have been so good to us. Lady had an appointment today and there are still
no signs of labor! YAY. We even scheduled her C-section. It is amazing to think
that every week we are so thankful we made it through and here we are at the
end and will possibly make it to week 40. We never thought we would make it
this far, nor did we think we would have two babies for that matter. A
testimony that prayer works.
A fun fact is that as of right now, Tau’aho and Aleki weigh
only a few ounces different! We had to give Aleki a pep-talk to eat “lots” so
he can grow big and strong…otherwise his little brother will look like a giant
next to him.
So here is to celebrating being still pregnant and having a
healthy one week old!
I just LOVE LOVE the picture of Hiva and Aleki lying in the bed next to yet other. Hiva is a beautiful mama and I'm so happy for your family.
ReplyDeleteMy heart aches for both of you!
ReplyDeleteLove and prayers