Several years ago I was riding in a car with a close friend
and we were admiring the sunset on a particularly cold winter day. He and I
talked about how sunsets and fake flowers are two ways that we know Heavenly
Father loves us—even during the harsh winters of our lives.
I still believe this today. Many times the darkest, winter
moments are during a decision making process. I am not talking about our
everyday decisions, I am referring to those
lay-in-bed-at-night-wonder-how-many-people-this-will-affect-eternal type of
decisions.
This week we had several experiences that reminded us of
some of our hardest decisions to make. A cousin of mine and his wife had to
make some tough decisions about the life of their pre-mature son that was
struggling with his health. Much like Lady Hiva and I did several years ago
with Vaitafe. There came a point we had to choose whether to keep him on life
support or not. The feeling that are involved in that winter of our life—and now
in my cousin’s—still haunt us today. (I wrote about this in WHITE LILIES INAUTUMN)
However, there are moments of mercy and peace as we make
these hard decisions. This too may seem hard to explain to someone not
intimately involved in the decision. But there is a strength that comes from
within and support from a loving Heavenly Father that carries us through our
times of sorrow and trial. Somehow we know what is right and feel at peace,
even when it seems contrary to our desires and wants.
Think about the last funeral you went to, or a friend that
has lost someone or been in an accident. Often, the spouse, parents, or
siblings who we would think are grieving the most, are the ones comforting
others with an unmatched serenity.
During these times, just like driving through the winter at
sunset with my friend, we will always have fake flowers and beautiful sunsets
to give us courage when we feel we may falter. These reminders also help us
when we doubt our decision and start to wonder if we made the correct one.
Lady Hiva and I also made some emotional decisions this
week, but we are at peace. Like many times before, we will have our moments of
doubt come, but thanks to the memories, the love and the special moments, we
know one eternal principle: WE ARE CHILDREN OF A LOVING HEAVENLY FATHER and He
knows our needs, desires and most importantly, he knows our sorrows.
So if you, too, are facing a winter season or a hard choice
in your life, watch the sunset tonight or go by some cheerful flowers and
remind yourself that you are loved.
Thank you for sharing this post! We are thinking of you and we love your sweet family and your great example to our family. What great courage and love you're showing through your example. You're in our prayers.
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